In August 2023, I self-published—Random Thoughts & F*cked Up Answers—not as a whisper, but as a head first plunge into the unknown. Then life, as it does, handed me more chaos, more clarity, and a few storylines I didn’t ask for. 

Now, I am working on a revamp to relaunch a sharper, wittier, and even more unfiltered version of this beast.

My story is far from a fairytale. I grew up with trauma—verbal and physical abuse that left its scars—but it also gave me the whetstone that sharpened my voice to do more than just barely survive this life, but to thrive as I cut through the noise.

RTFUA isn’t a “wannabe” memoir—it’s a reckoning wrapped in wit. It’s for the silenced, the dismissed, the ones clawing their way out of the dark—and the ones that want a wild, mind-bending ride of word play.

My mission is to reach those who’ve walked through hell, skipped the pity party, and chosen a life of purpose—refusing to live in paralysis—in hopes of igniting an awakening fire within you.

With soul, scars, and unapologetic sass-i-tude,

Monique

We never know how One’s hourglass is built or when One’s last spec of sand will fall. This is why I live with mindful respect and gratitude for each moment.
— Monique Arge